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There's an insidious allure in discussing what we will do. Each word we share, each nod of approval we seek, creates the illusion that we've already achieved something. For those whose current is attention, it can be intoxicating.
But here's the question you need to ask yourself: Are you seeking attention and validation instead of results? Do you fall into the trap of broadcasting intentions instead of committing to action?
Let's be real—the more you talk, the less you do. The less you say, the fewer excuses you have to hide behind. Silence becomes a shield, not just from the judgment of others but from your tendency to delay. Words without action are empty; they are promises to the wind, easily swept away.
And here's the bitter truth you can't ignore: talking doesn't build bridges, climb mountains, or create legacies. But action does.
The world is noisy and cluttered with "scrub birds" chirping doubts and distractions. Some mean well, others don't, but all of them can derail your focus if you let them. Their chatter feeds fear, seeds hesitation or negativity, and thrives on your inaction. The solution? Move in silence.. as I say, 'go stealth'. Build belief in the quiet spaces where no one is watching. Take relentless, unapologetic action that silences the noise not by argument but by proof.
Talk less. Do more. Because the results will speak louder than any words ever could.
The Myth of "Getting Ready"
Many people cling to the idea that they must prepare, learn, or gather more opinions before starting. But the problem with seeking validation is this: the more people you tell, the more you expose yourself to the "scrub birds." These are the ones who project their fears, insecurities, and limitations onto your dream. They don't mean harm, but harm is what they do when you let their doubts take root in your mind.
Here's a truth you might not have realised: you don't need a roundtable of opinions to take the next step. You need a solid belief in yourself and a quiet plan. That's it. The scrub birds thrive on noise—starve them.
The Power of Silence
Silence isn't weakness; it's your greatest weapon. When you keep your plans to yourself, you preserve their energy. Think of it like a fire: too much exposure to wind (opinions and doubts), and the flames die out. But when you shield it, feed it only what it needs, that fire roars to life.
The most powerful moves are made in quiet spaces. This is where belief is built—not through constant affirmation from others, but by taking steps forward, no matter how small. Each action is a vote of confidence in yourself. And when you do share, reserve that privilege for the few who have earned your trust. They'll give you honest feedback, not just echoes of doubt.
Belief Isn't Found; It's Built
People often wait for confidence to appear, as if some mystical force arrives when the timing is perfect. Newsflash: confidence is created through action. In the doing, the failing, the trying again, and the learning, you build the foundation of belief.
Belief isn't about knowing you'll succeed—it's about trusting yourself to keep going even when you don't. The noisy voices of doubt—external and internal—don't have a chance against someone already in motion. You're not asking for permission; you're proving you belong.
Why "Less is More" Matters
There's an art to sharing less. The less you share, the fewer voices can sabotage your momentum. When you finally let people see what you've done, they're not debating whether you can do it—they're staring at the proof. This isn't about secrecy; it's about protecting your energy.
Here's a scenario: You share your plan with five people. Three are supportive, one is indifferent, and one sows doubt. That single doubter can plant seeds that derail you. But if you stay quiet, focus on action, and share only when the results are in, you bypass that entire cycle.
Flip the Script: Stop Talking, Start Doing
We've been conditioned to believe that discussing our plans holds us accountable. But here's a radical thought: your results are your accountability. Talking dilutes the drive. Doing cements it.
If you've ever watched someone announce a significant life change or goal, only to see them stall out months later, you've witnessed the power of misplaced energy. They spent more time convincing others of their plan than convincing themselves. Don't be that person.
Keep Your Inner Circle Tight
Trust isn't a given—it's earned. Your inner circle should consist of people who challenge you to be better, not people who challenge the validity of your dreams. These rare individuals will tell you what you need to hear, not just what you want to hear.
Be ruthless about who you let into this circle. The wrong feedback can knock you off course, while the right feedback can propel you forward. This isn't about shutting out the world; it's about being strategic about who you let influence your journey. I don't tell too many people what I am doing, but I will let them know what I have done... if they ask.
Your Next Move
The path forward isn't complicated. Here's your simple action plan:
Define your goal clearly. Know precisely what you're working toward. Vague goals breed vague results.
Take the first step immediately. Stop waiting for the perfect moment—it doesn't exist. Start where you are, with what you have.
Guard your energy. Share your plans sparingly and only with those you trust.
Focus on progress, not perfection. Each small win builds momentum.
Let your results speak for you. Show the world what you've done, not what you will do.
Final Thoughts: Silence Distractions and Crush Your Goals
The world doesn't need another dreamer who never acts. It needs doers—people who make it happen, not because it's easy, but because it's worth it. You don't owe the world an explanation for your dreams. You owe yourself the commitment to chase them relentlessly.
So stop talking. Start doing. Let the scrub birds chirp—they'll be the first to applaud when you soar higher than they ever thought possible. Silence Distractions and Crush Your Goals!