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Self care: Get away to find yourself

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Updated: Jul 1, 2024

In the sprawling archipelago of Indonesia, the mystical island of Bali beckons travellers searching for more than just a getaway; it promises an escape. My trip there ensures I gain a transformed perspective, revealing the depth of the healing and reflective powers nestled within its enchanting embrace. The self care feelgood40plus promotes.

Find your calm place
Find your calm place

Bali is often touted as a paradise, a place of picturesque beaches, lush green landscapes, and a rich tapestry of culture. But it’s more than that; it's a sanctuary for souls weary of the clamour of the world. From the moment I arrived, the island seemed to whisper an invitation, urging me to step off the spinning globe and take a breath.


Every day, I found myself relaxing by the pool while listening to the hypnotic tones of soothing cafe music. The melodious notes pulled my spirit into a state of tranquility. Every worry, every anxiety dissolving, replaced by an emerging clarity.


Self care and serenity began skyward

As I gazed upward, kites danced gracefully in the sky, their vibrant colours cutting through the azure vastness. In Balinese culture, these kites serve as more than mere playthings; they symbolise a connection to the divine, a tether that brings one closer to the gods. Observing them, I felt an ethereal pull, drawing me deeper into a contemplative trance.


It's intriguing how sometimes, amid the cacophony of life, we become aware of our profound need for stillness. It's a whisper within that nudges us, reminding us of the importance of introspection. I knew, intrinsically, that I needed this retreat—this time to detach and recharge. But it wasn't until I was immersed in the depths of reflection that I understood its full significance.


Self care and serenity perfect to evoke reflection

Reflection, I know, is not just a passive act of looking back or gazing inward. It’s an active engagement with the self, a deep dive into understanding one’s essence, desires, and aspirations. It’s about pausing amidst the chaos and asking the hard questions: Who am I? Who do I want to be? And how will I become that person? What door are you willing to explore next?


Search within
Search within

In Bali, away from the demands of daily life, the world takes on a different hue. When you're immersed in stillness rather than being ensnared in its frenetic pace, clarity emerges. It's akin to watching a play from the balcony seats, where you discern patterns, motives, and connections that are often missed when you're on life's stage, lost in the throes of the act.


Yet, as rejuvenating as such retreats are, they're not just about relaxation. They are a call to action. A gentle reminder that as much as we seek serenity outside, the real journey is within. It's about understanding oneself, aligning with one’s purpose, and charting the course forward.


One evening, as the sun cast a golden hue over the horizon, a thought struck me. We often chase after goals, believing they're the ultimate reward. Perhaps what we seek is not always the destination but the evolution of the self. A metamorphosis that takes us from who we are to who we yearn to be.


Go on your self care and serenity vacation

Bali and other destinations like it, with their tranquil landscapes and soulful ambience, serve as mirrors, reflecting back to us our deepest truths. In its embrace, I found not just peace, but a renewed understanding of my purpose and path.


As I packed my bags to return, I carry with me more than memories. I take with me insights, revelations, and a rekindled spirit, ready to engage with the world but with a clearer vision and a deeper sense of self.


For those seeking a respite, places like Bali are more than a destination. It's a journey of the soul, a testament to the power of reflection, and a reminder that sometimes, to truly see the world, one must first look within. Don't hold off taking time to holiday and stop from life, reconnect with yourself. We will always find a reason not to book something, how about making the reason to do it.

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